{"id":172,"date":"2009-08-24T15:53:38","date_gmt":"2009-08-24T15:53:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.wensmedia.com\/\/salesarchive\/permalink\/2009\/8\/24\/115338.html"},"modified":"2009-08-24T15:53:38","modified_gmt":"2009-08-24T15:53:38","slug":"absence-of-body-language","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ensmediausa.com\/ens-on-sales\/uncategorized\/absence-of-body-language\/","title":{"rendered":"Absence of Body Language"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<span style=\"font-size: 9pt; font-family: Arial\">&copy; by Wayne Ens<\/span><\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-size: small\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; If you haven&rsquo;t noticed, the skills required for selling and building customer relationships in the business-to-business world have changed dramatically in recent years.<br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; In a recent MarketingSherpa survey, buyers and sales people were asked<span style=\"color: black\">,<\/span> &ldquo;Why do buyers leave?&rdquo;<br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Not surprisingly, the top answer with sales people was &ldquo;price&rdquo;. The top answer with buyers, however, was &ldquo;service<span style=\"color: black\">&rdquo;.<\/span><br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; But multi-tasking, tighter deadlines and technology have redefined the world of selling, and how buyers define <span style=\"color: black\">service.<\/span> <br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Service that was once measured by the amount of face-to-face time you dedicated to your <span style=\"color: black\">prospects,<\/span> is now measured by busy <span style=\"color: black\">buyers based on<\/span> how much face-to-face time you <i><u>don&rsquo;t <\/u><\/i>occupy to achieve their objectives. <br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Buyer styles that were read face-to-face through &lsquo;body language&rsquo; or verbal tones, now often have to be assessed through &lsquo;literature language&rsquo; received in hastilycrafted emails.<br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Relationships <span style=\"color: black\">that<\/span> were once built exclusively on face-to-face communication and personality are now also impacted by your ability to communicate effectively with technology and to convey your personality, and read your prospects&rsquo; personalities, through the written word.&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Your ability to write succinctly with empathy, and to read between the lines in client emails, are skills that are as important today as the questioning and negotiating skills you <span style=\"color: black\">acquired<\/span> when you were learning face-to-face selling.&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial\">P.S. Our Customer-Focused Communications workshops will help you understand what&rsquo;s behind the emails you receive and how to reach and influence your prospects with new technologies and the written word.<span style=\"font-family: Tahoma\">&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: Arial\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: Tahoma\">&nbsp; <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;&copy; by Wayne Ens &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; If you haven&rsquo;t noticed, the skills required for selling and building customer relationships in the business-to-business world have changed dramatically in recent years. &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; In a recent MarketingSherpa survey, buyers and sales people were asked, &ldquo;Why do buyers leave?&rdquo; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Not surprisingly, the top answer with sales people was &ldquo;price&rdquo;. 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