{"id":1898,"date":"2020-10-23T15:27:20","date_gmt":"2020-10-23T15:27:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ensmediausa.com\/ens-on-sales\/?p=1898"},"modified":"2020-10-23T15:27:20","modified_gmt":"2020-10-23T15:27:20","slug":"just-listen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ensmediausa.com\/ens-on-sales\/uncategorized\/just-listen\/","title":{"rendered":"Just Listen"},"content":{"rendered":"

While interviewing prospective media sales reps and visiting with seasoned sales reps, every once in a while I meet people who proudly proclaim their strength to be, “I’ve got the gift of gab.”\u00a0<\/em>\u00a0They say this as it\u2019s a strength instead of a potential weakness.<\/h4>\n

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In sales, the \u201cgift of gab\u201d can oftentimes be more aptly described as \u201cthe curse of chatter\u201d, or more to the point as someone that \u201cdoesn\u2019t know when to shut up”!<\/h4>\n

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Successful sales professionals know that sales is really more about listening than it is about talking.<\/h4>\n

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Those with the curse more often engage in product-feature speak than they do in providing customer-focused solutions or opportunities.<\/h4>\n

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Customers don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care….and caring is demonstrated by listening.<\/h4>\n

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Listening is by far the most important skill a sales professional can learn and practice.\u00a0\u00a0The salespeople who annoy and alienate prospects the most are those who claim to be good listeners but follow every customer objection with a “yah, but…..<\/em>“<\/h4>\n

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There is no room for the word “but” in a good listener’s vocabulary.\u00a0To be a professional listener you need to:<\/h4>\n

1.) Be Prepared. Earn the right to ask questions by learning something about the prospect’s business before you make a call.<\/h4>\n

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2.) Ask open-ended questions that encourage the prospect to express their views and feelings.<\/h4>\n

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3.) Demonstrate you are listening by taking notes. (Always ask permission to take notes, i.e. “Your input is important to me; do you mind if I take a few notes?”<\/em>)<\/h4>\n

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4.) Paraphrase and summarize what you hear.\u00a0\u00a0Don’t start a debate.<\/h4>\n

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5.) Use the language and needs you hear the customer express when you make your presentation.<\/h4>\n

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6.) Make certain that every benefit you present relates to a need you heard the prospect express.<\/h4>\n

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There is a lot more money to be made being interested<\/em> than there is in being interesting<\/em>.<\/h4>\n

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So, instead of proving that you have the \u201cgift of gab\u201d, shut up and\u2026 Just Listen!<\/h4>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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In sales, the \u201cgift of gab\u201d can oftentimes be more aptly […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[384,529,161],"class_list":["post-1898","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-customer","tag-listen","tag-prospects"],"yoast_head":"\nJust Listen - ENS on Sales<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ensmediausa.com\/ens-on-sales\/uncategorized\/just-listen\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Just Listen - ENS on Sales\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"While interviewing prospective media sales reps and visiting with seasoned sales reps, every once in a while I meet people who proudly proclaim their strength to be, “I’ve got the gift of gab.”\u00a0\u00a0They say this as it\u2019s a strength instead of a potential weakness. 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