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The salespeople who annoy and alienate prospects the most are those who claim to be good listeners but follow every customer objection with a &#8220;yah, but&#8230;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>There is no room for the word &#8220;but&#8221; in a good listener&#8217;s vocabulary. To be a professional listener you need to:<\/p>\n<p>Earn the right to ask questions by learning something about the prospect&#8217;s business before you make a call.\u00a0Prepare with open-ended questions that encourage the prospect to express their views and feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Demonstrate you are listening by taking notes. (Always ask permission to take notes, &#8220;Your input is important to me; do you mind if I take a few notes?&#8221;)<\/p>\n<p>Paraphrase and summarize what you hear. 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