{"id":27,"date":"2012-12-05T02:29:25","date_gmt":"2012-12-05T02:29:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.wensmedia.com\/\/salesarchive\/permalink\/2012\/12\/4\/212925.html"},"modified":"2012-12-05T02:29:25","modified_gmt":"2012-12-05T02:29:25","slug":"the-gift-of-gab","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ensmediausa.com\/ens-on-sales\/uncategorized\/the-gift-of-gab\/","title":{"rendered":"The ‘Gift’ of Gab"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n
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Every once in a while I meet a sales person who proudly proclaims, "I’ve got the gift of gab." In sales, that ‘gift’ is more aptly described as ‘the curse of chatter.’<\/span><\/p>\n

Successful sales professionals know that sales is really more about listening than it is about talking. <\/span><\/p>\n

Those with the curse more often engage in product feature speak than they do in providing customer-focused solutions or opportunities.<\/span><\/p>\n

Customers don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care….and caring is demonstrated by listening. <\/span><\/p>\n

Listening is by far the most important and difficult skill a sales professional can learn and practice. The sales people who annoy and alienate prospects the most are those who claim to be good listeners but follow every customer objection with a "yah, but….."<\/span><\/p>\n

There is no room for the word ‘but’ in a good listener’s vocabulary.<\/span><\/p>\n

To be a professional listener you need to;<\/span><\/p>\n

1.) Earn the right to ask questions by learning something about the prospect’s business before you make a call.<\/span><\/p>\n

2.) Prepare with open ended questions that encourage the prospect to express their views and feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

3.) Demonstrate you are listening by taking notes. (Always ask permission to take notes. "Your input is important to me, do you mind if I take a few notes?") <\/span><\/p>\n

4.) Paraphrase and summarize what you hear. Don’t start a debate.<\/span><\/p>\n

5.) Use the language and needs you hear the customer express when you make your presentation.<\/span><\/p>\n

6.) Make certain that every benefit you present relates to a need you heard the prospect express.<\/span><\/p>\n

There is a lot more money to be made being interested than there is in being interesting. So why not shut up and make some money!<\/span><\/p>\n

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Becoming a Master Questioner: Have you considered having Wayne Ens facilitate this enlightening workshop for your sellers?<\/span><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n

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