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If you are working with the real decision-maker in an organization and they turn down your proposal because "it’s not in the budget", you’ve just been lied to!<\/p>\n

Business owners often find it easier to turn you down by blaming their budget rather than your station, your idea, your audience or your price.
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You often use the same escape tactic. When a clerk approaches you in a furniture store and asks, "Can I help you?" you’ve learned it’s easy to get rid of them by simply saying "No thank you, we’re just looking." ‘Just looking’ is a nice lie. No one takes time out of their busy schedule to ‘just look’ at furniture if they have no intent or money to buy.<\/p>\n

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Here is how I know that "it’s not in the budget" is a courteous lie if you are dealing with the real decision maker:<\/span>
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\n\t\t\t\t\t\t1.) Who makes the budget? The real decision maker! It is their budget and they can change or add to that budget whenever they want to.<\/div>\n
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Your job is to uncover the reason they feel that way and return with a better customer-focused presentation that does convince the business owner she will get a return on her investment.
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