{"id":663,"date":"2014-01-30T19:03:37","date_gmt":"2014-01-30T19:03:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.wensmedia.com\/ens-on-sales\/?p=663"},"modified":"2014-01-30T19:03:37","modified_gmt":"2014-01-30T19:03:37","slug":"candour-as-a-relationship-builder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ensmediausa.com\/ens-on-sales\/uncategorized\/candour-as-a-relationship-builder\/","title":{"rendered":"Candour as a Relationship Builder"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Many sales people are afraid to use candour as a relationship builder with their customers and prospects. They have been trained to &#8220;sell themselves first&#8221;.<br \/>\nIn this effort to sell themselves first, they have placed being &#8220;liked&#8221; ahead of being respected as a marketing partner. In their quest to be liked, these glad-handers often fear opening the challenging and meaningful dialogue necessary to understand their customer&#8217;s goals.<br \/>\nThese friendly sales types will often take every answer they get in a Customer Needs Analysis (CNA) at face value. If a prospect claims they &#8220;give better service&#8221; than their competitors, for example, these sales people will smile and say something like, &#8220;that&#8217;s nice&#8221;.<br \/>\nTrue advisors have mastered the art of playing devil&#8217;s advocate during the CNA process on their way to building stronger client relationships and more relevant ad campaigns.<br \/>\nProfessionals will explain to their prospects why they play the role of a skeptical customer. When the client suggests they, &#8220;give better service,&#8221; the professional will say something like, &#8220;I&#8217;m playing a skeptical customer. 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